‘Training’ Liberty?

I have noticed there are a lot more trainers out there offering online courses and ebooks etc all about training horses at liberty.

I am very fortunate to have learnt from Carolyn Resnick who as far as I know was one of the first, if not the first person to interact with horses at liberty and to offer this as a way to learn more about how horses operate.

With The Carolyn Resnick method™, unlike most others, we start at liberty. We develop a bond with our horse when he is free in an open environment and able to escape our influence. We don’t start with tack or round pens. We never trap the horse or drill him in tack untill he carries on the same behavior without tack. We do not want our horse to be robotic we encourage his spirit to stay alive.

Here young Chester follows my lead, not because he has done this before a hundred times in tack, in fact we only just started doing this, but he has learnt being with me feels good, he knows I will try to work as a team with him and he enjoys obstacles. He follows me due to the time spent bonding, creating trust and our time spent at true liberty. He would not be chased or punished for walking away and leaving me and I would not be offended, I would allow him his freedom. He finds this way far more appealing and chooses to stay with me.

How do we do all this? it sounds long winded and difficult. If you are trapped in a mindset of thinking you have to control your horse and you can’t without tack then maybe take a look at this method in fact it makes training quicker.

We grow a relationship with our horse using behaviors and interactions that are natural to him, he becomes drawn to us naturally, as he would be to another horse. Our horse OFFERS CONNECTION AT LIBERTY. How can Liberty be liberty without free choice? When our horse stops thinking and decision making he is in fact much harder to train. When he chooses the training we bring to him it is very easy. His decisions come into line with ours, his energy blends with ours and anything we choose to do together becomes harmonious.

We can take this to any other equestrian pursuits, when I start AT LIBERTY I have my horses willingness when I use tack, lunging Chester over a jump for the first time for instance I would never ask too much and he was very happy to oblige. He seems to enjoy poles and jumps very much.

My mare Noonoo who taught me I needed to develop this partnership with her seemed untrainable and a bit wild untill we started with The Carolyn Resnick method. Now she enters into many different forms of partnership with me. We still love our time hanging out together, dancing at liberty, and we share an unspoken energetic communication in riding. Something I feel very grateful to have experienced. She is even teaching my grandchildren all about horses, At liberty, in ground work, and riding. They have her best interests at heart and they love riding bitless.

If you would like to experience this depth of connection with your horse please do contact me. Or check out Carolyn Resnick method of horsemanship. Where there are online courses.

Love Jayne x

Liberty during Lockdown.

What does Liberty mean to us and will Corona virus change how we see our liberty. That freedom we normally enjoy. I wonder if we will be changed by what has happened. I hope we will for the better, maybe we will waste less.

Maybe we will be more grateful for our planet, the animals, each other and our freedom. I hope we can get back to hugging our relatives and friends.

For our society to loose some of their freedom and liberty would have been unthinkable last year. To hear the horrific numbers of deaths and the suffering of those who have been really ill would have been unthinkable.

For my 86yr old Mum and all the other vulnerable people who have to do then social distancing they have to shield themselves it must seem like a prison sentence. Not going out other than for a short walk and some not able to do that even without assistance which they cannot have now. They truly have no freedom at the moment.

I am forever grateful to my horses for being in my life, I never forget how lucky I am and now more so than ever. My heartfelt wishes go out to everyone. I hope we can be free from this virus and enjoy the freedom we had. Be kind and don’t forget to send out love we are all connected even on lockdown.

I am very grateful for the freedom she gives to me. I hope you enjoy this little clip and can share how it felt. It felt like we were free.

Love Jayne x

Jo and Jack.

This blog is from an email I received from the lovely Jo we met some 4 or 5 years ago now I think. Jack was a very young bouncy boy and they came to Somerset to a Waterhole Rituals clinic. Since then I have traveled to Wales and Jo has come to all the clinics there. I have got to know her and Jack and we have kept in touch even though I had to cancel the clinic due to Covid19.

It is always an honor to watch people grow, relationships grow and indeed boys like Jack grow up. What I loved straight away with Jo, was her horse was perfect to her even if he had the odd nip or expressed himself with some leaping and bucking. She adored him and he her. This tale shows how strong the bond, trust and connection are between them.

I haven’t got back to you about Jack as I was all ready and excited on Sunday as a friend up the road was lending us her arena, I went to the shelter and both Sid and jack were completely out of it, total snooze mode so as I didn’t have a time frame, I sat down with them, relaxed, shared snooze territory and felt good that for once I was able to go with the flow.

Jack decided to itch his head on the large wooden manger, which he does often. Then he walked right up to me holding his head to one side in a dozy low head manner. His eye was filled and pouring with blood! My heart stopped! I cleaned it up quickly, photographed it, sent to the vet, then followed it up with a call and found out how it had happened. Due to his scratching he had caused a screw to come loose, a flat head screw was sticking out by a few mm’s. The vet who is a friend was brilliant and after more pics we discovered he had cut his lower eyelid the whole way through, not touching the eye.

(As I read on I was picturing this in my mind, later Jo sent me the pictures)

I had given him arnica immediately, which was great as it prevented swelling, then had to clean with warm salty water, then apply a cream from a syringe by pulling back his eyelid and squirting it in. I am squeamish and this felt like it would hurt a lot especially as it was in 2 parts now.

I had questioned my connection with Jack just days before and yet in this moment and the days that followed it was heartbreakingly obvious that I was soooo wrong. He held his head so still while I bathed him, he held it low so I could reach and never moved when I held the cotton wool soaked salt water over the wound. My fear of hurting him further with the whole cream thing he knew, he felt and stood there for me in his pain and let me pull his eyelid down. It wasn’t just that moment, he was the same in the evening and the following day. I cannot describe the love, respect and humbling effect this has had on me from my beautiful and powerful horse who could have refused treatment. I didn’t need help or painkillers or drugs to make him dopey. He trusted me, even when I was shaking.

My husband knew I’d felt disappointed earlier in the week with my connection and he isn’t a man of many words, but that evening he said to me, sometimes I think you just expect too much of Jack. It wasn’t a criticism, I know he was being thoughtful for both our sake’s.(mine and Jack)

Sunday night I remembered a class I had taken about communication with animals, I fell asllep to the perfect vision of Jack’s eye, so big it filled my mind and it was well, it was healed, it was beautiful and gentle.

Monday morning I went up and I couldn’t believe how well it had healed, closed up, no swelling, no more bleeding and he was shouting in his usual way for breakfast.

Jack is special I know, when the vet who I bought him off saw him, he knew too, he bought him the day after he castrated him and Jack, a yearling, never haltered, never separated from his mum, was led straight onto a trailer, no fuss at all, they were all gobsmacked. He had a good life for 3 more years with the vet’s herd, then another mutual friend, a kind, intuitive highly experienced horse lady backed him and said he was the easiest horse she had ever backed.

So you see I  can’t take the credit for him being the amazing trusting soul he is, but I am glad that he counts me as one of those he trusts and that I try to listen, that I try to learn from you and Carolyn the gentle subtle ways of gaining that trust which can lead to such an amazing relationship which is fun, relaxing, inspiring and ever evolving.

He has taught me so much about life and I know he has a ton more up his fetlock to teach me Jo x

I am so looking forward to catching up with Jo and everyone in Wales when it becomes possible. Jo rides Jack bitless across the Welsh hills accompanied at liberty by her shetland pony Sid. She also makes wonderful organic face creams, soaps, eye creams and lots more all of which (pretty much) I am using. There is a link to Earthbound organics on my links page. I love your smile Jo and thank you for sharing this.

Never underestimate how connected your horse is to you, we just need to tune in, give them our time, our full attention and speak their language.

Love Jayne x

The Corona Virus posts 8-14

These are the last 7 posts of 14 which I posted on social media during the social distancing and isolating with symptoms phase.

Today was for enjoying the sunshine, the peace and quiet and of course horses. If you are spending more time in your own company then this is time for you, time to find that peaceful moment, listen to spring appearing everywhere. I can here birds nesting. I watch a blackbird collecting moss for a nest. Nature goes on. I wish everyone with worries some moments of peace.

Today it was so quiet I rode Chester and then Noonoo, they were both so happy and so connected. The peace and quiet is appreciated by them. I am very fortunate to have the life I do but what ever circumstances I have found myself in I have always looked for the good. Here is Noons, I am so grateful she is feeling well now, despite me jabbing needles, dozens! into her bottom we are as close as ever she is so generous of spirit and tries to help me be a better person, rider, caretaker for them. We could learn so much from her. She was on springs.

Love Jayne x


DAY 9. Taking baby steps.
When Chester came to us he was well….A bit feral he had just started basic handling and really new very little about how to be a polite member of our family. The most difficult part of his re-hab has been feet. He tried everything kicking, planting, squashing the evil human who tried to pick them up and biting. Through working with The Carolyn Resnick method, The Waterhole Rituals with him and giving him TIME FOR BABY STEPS he has become a willing partner. It took 20-30 mins to just pick his feet out in the beginning. I worked on the first 5 rituals which create, a bond, trust, respect, willingness and focus. He seemed to like me and wanted a bond the rest well needed attention!! I am so proud of him now he is stronger, happier and I can’t wait to see what we might do together. Early on with his feet I decided baby steps, however small was the route I wanted to take. His left hind was the hardest, if he just lifted his heel up after me asking for what seemed like ages I would reward him. I had to dig deep to not get frustrated.
So this post is a lesson from Chester. Find the gaps in your horses what would you like them to do with more ease. If you can’t be with your horse why not make a plan see how many tiny steps you can take towards removing that gap. You could do this at home first even if you can still see your horse or you could go and share territory with your horse and write down the baby steps you could take. Ask them ” Can we take the first step together today” Grow the strings of connection in the first 5 Waterhole Rituals and give your self and your horse time. Our country is taking new steps each day to battle the Corona virus. It started with hand washing and warnings and has grown into social distancing. Please take what ever steps we need to. Stay home its not so bad.

Love Jayne x

DAY 10

DAY 10
I received a newsletter from my yoga teachers the other day at the bottom was this. I thought it was really good and wanted to share it.
In a pandemic, self isolation is called quarantine. In Yoga it’s called retreat. There is a big difference between solitude and loneliness. Loneliness is a negative state, marked by a sense of isolation. Solitude is a state of being alone without being lonely. It’s a positive and constructive state of engagement with oneself.
Remember you are not alone – we will get through this together!

It is up to us how we look at this situation we find ourselves in, we have to take care not spread this virus but also take care of our own well being in every way. If we can stay positive and constructive support others where we can and find some time for self engagement we will come through it with more ease.
Today I was still able to spend time with my horses and they always help me see more clearly who I am. Our horses have a great sense of self so maybe as well as having cleaner air and more peace we too might find a great sense of self.

Love Jayne x

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DAY 11

DAY 11 Fear.
As the numbers of people with the virus increases, it seems we are coming to terms with doing the right thing in order not to spread it any further. The numbers predicted are scary. Fear is a terrible thing. We can change our perspective if we decide not to allow fear in. I am not suggesting we do not behave in a thoughtful and responsible way. However fear helps no one it is a very negative emotion.
Normally this weekend would be when I start going out teaching clinics and sharing The Carolyn Resnick method, The clocks change and the days are longer. One thing I do encounter sometimes at clinics is fear, fear in humans and also in horses. We can transmit our fear to our horses. When we give our horse free will and they are truly at liberty to choose our company we tend to get rid of fear both in us and our horses, as we learn new ways to communicate our fears diminish both for us and our horses.
At the moment we are restricted and do not have the freedoms we are used to but lets not let fear creep in and drag us down.
I will really miss meeting everyone at this time of year, I love it when over two days I can see relationships flourish and fear slide away. I have even met new people who do not know me and I appreciate they may feel fear towards me and a totally different way of being with their horse. This soon subsides as we find ways to connect with each other. I will greatly miss these connections and look forward to making them here on the internet as well as in person later in the year. Please stay connected. Here is a little taste of what was for me a wonderful year. I hope we can catch up this year I look forward to it very much.

Love Jayne x

DAY 12

DAY 12. Entering the world of your horse. ( Here with my Uncle, his dog, My Mum and her dog ) I can’t wait for them to be able to come and do it again. They are 86yrs and 80 yrs. old.
Hopefully everyone is keeping well and able to see their horses. For us here we cannot be ill we have not only horses, but cows, pigs, geese, ducks and dogs. Andy still has lots of farming, harrowing , rolling, topping and spreading muck. Our fields need to be ready for the cows to go out and ready to make hay. We have had 4 new calves born, all easy births so hopefully more like that to follow. Our animals have such a great sense of community the cows will appoint a baby sitter and they are all interested in new arrivals.
At this time when you might have more time to spend with your horses, you can Share territory and really enter into their world, I like to feel how they feel and often like today when it is windy if they spook I feel a shock of energy run through me, from them. When they are peaceful I can feel the silent shared communication, it only communicates connection and being at peace. In these troubled times I hope you can find those moments when your horse is at rest and share that sense of peace.
I also enjoy our interactions that mimic how horses are together when grazing. I have been known to have a cup of tea with family and a slice of cake while the horses eat and drink with us. You could take a picnic lunch and hang out with your horse. No carrot cake!!! If there is cold tea left before you go…..Noonoo will spot it.Click the link below to see her in action.

DAY 13

DAY 13 of 14 days of posts to try and bring some cheer and stay connected. I was hoping to film our herd, Noonoo, Maya, Chester and myself mooching and grazing, moving into each others space and being invited in to share space, moving towards one another and giving way and some of the subtle body language that goes on. It wasn’t to be I had no one to film for me, but we did it anyway and it feels really good.

Before this I rode Noonoo first and then did some bonding and liberty with Chester, this followed on to some ground work using poles and cones. He felt like he wanted me to ride him!!! I went to get the saddle and he stood still looked round to make sure it went on. He is still very green as the backing and early riding process has been done slowly. (with thanks to Charlotte Wake) He is bitless and seems happy that way. He makes me smile, when we go to the mounting block he couldn’t get any closer and I know when he wants me to get on. We had a wonderful ride using the cones and poles it really helped to check out how he is listening for my aids, he really is waiting for me now.

Through the time we have spent building our relationship I have really come to know him, he had some lively moments in the beginning. Now I know him and he knows me I know intuitively when riding will be ok, he is becoming much more dependable as the bond between us is also more dependable and solid. The trust has grown and at last I feel safe to ride him alone. If you don’t feel this trust and dependability with your horse and you don’t intuitively know their mood you don’t feel safe. Through building a partnership where we work together, he has learnt not to take over or be too playful biting the reins and pawing the ground.
My teacher in The Waterhole Rituals, The Carolyn Resnick method, Carolyn told me she needed me to find neutral and help Noonoo find neutral too. At the time I wasn’t sure I could! It has been a very valuable lesson for me. Chester and I have found neutral together and it’s a great place to be. He was very scattered highly focused one minute and then distracted the next. Now we can start in neutral I believe top gear will be no problem to find when we are ready!!!

I hope everyone can find neutral see the bigger picture, and find something each day to be grateful for and smile about. With our family members and those we live with we could at this time practice more kindness be more considerate and come out of this with cleaner air and better relationships with not only the animals in our lives but with ourselves and our human companions. I think many of us will be more thoughtful about waste and I know we are using our supplies cautiously. I am getting creative in the kitchen !!! Poor Andy.
Please stay connected and look out for DAY 14 tomorrow I am hoping something in the pipeline will come about…………

DAY 14

I promised I had something in the pipeline and luckily it came together, I cannot think of anyone who I would rather hear a story from and get a special message from in this troubled time.
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Love Jayne x

The Corona Virus posts. 1-7

These are 14 days of posts I wrote on social media starting from the lock down and advice to isolate if we show symptoms.

Here are the first 7 days.

Day 1

So now if you have symptoms you have to self isolate for 14 days, I guess it is going to keep changing all the time. I am going to post a nice picture or video and some ideas of things you can do each day with or without your horse for 14 days. I would love to hear from everyone. Valentina Galatioto thank you for this lovely picture of Maya.
If you can’t go to see your horse, find some good books to read, you could read them now of wait and read them Sharing Territory with your horse. If everyone could share a book choice that would be cool. My top two would be Naked Liberty Carolyn Resnick and Listen like a horse Kerri Lake. Find some guided meditations to listen to with or without your horse. Lets share some! Search for some music you might like to play while Sharing Territory, this is one I often play during a meditation in the clinics.
If you play an instrument would your horse enjoy you playing to them? Sending love and positive thoughts to everyone Jayne x


So here we go with DAY2 of 14 days of posts for everyone who is distancing themselves . If you are poorly and have the infection or have health issues or are over 70 which is the age our country are saying should self isolate. Other advice is for much younger 55yrs. If you are healthy and with your horse or not I am thinking of you all. Our horses have so many lessons for us. DAY 2. SAY HELLO! With your horse why not see how many different ways you can approach your horse and say hello, of course we can offer a hello but the horse has free choice, some like a playful approach some a very thoughtful approach. There are as many different hello’s as there are horses. There are many different responses from our horses too. When we respect how they feel about our approach they notice!
Taking the lesson from horses on community and trust, something which is built by the Hello Ritual, the second ritual of Carolyn Resnick‘s method, The Waterhole Rituals. Why not phone an old friend, a neighbor or relative and say HELLO. Elderly isolated people need to talk and know someone is out there. I hope to keep in touch with all the wonderful people I have met through facebook and horses in this difficult time. Please share how the best of hello’s feel from a horse or a human. Even if we have to say hello from a distance as I am with my 86yr old mother, I drop her shopping and some films off and I hope that she knows even from 8ft away my eyes and my body langauge still hug her. I blow her a kiss and want her to stay safe. This picture was from very early on with Chester, we still say hello all the time. We have built much more trust and lets face it can you ever have too much mutual trust? We are building it every day on the ground as I walk past his stable, at liberty, with tack from the ground, and in riding. What has built more trust between you and your horse? Love Jayne.


DAY 3 of 14 posts, which is how many days you have to isolate for if one person in your home has symptoms. So with the announcement that schools will close tomorrow, why not learn something new. There are lots of online courses you can do to learn more about how to connect with your horse, care for your horse, train your horse.
I have learnt so much from Lana Comeriato and I am so pleased that I can care for my horses feet in this time of crisis. You really do need bags of time, so if you are stuck at home what better time to start, there are lots of files and video’s to watch. I have read and re- read the guidelines and really have tried to understand the workings of the hoof, lots to learn still but Lana guides you through the learning so well.

I love the exercise of the month club here but there are lots of different options and the Ritter’s give away lots of free mini courses as well.Thank you for those Thomas and Shana Ritter https://www.artisticdressage.com/

Carolyn Resnick has lots on offer here. As anyone who knows me will be aware I love teaching The Carolyn Resnick method The Waterhole Rituals. This is the foundation for everything else. I started with an online course and never looked back. My aim for harmonious bitless dressage and for willing horses who offer their feet for me would have been much harder without this method. My life has changed through this way of being with my horses and I never thought I would travel to California to study in person.

Here is a little clip of how these three online courses have helped us be able to have fun together and give things a go as a partnership.

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DAY 4 of fourteen.
Social Distancing. We are being asked to keep our distance from each other, avoid pubs, anywhere that we do not need to go where there are crowds. Even our own family if they are elderly. When we do see them it is very hard to keep our distance, I love my Children, Grandchildren and Mum. I am a very tactile person I love hugging!!! Some times the personal space we make between us may need to be much larger than normal. This is one such time. I have to respect my family’s wishes if they wish to see me for Mothers day and meet outside with distance between us and no touching I have to respect their wishes I hope the children understand, it will be hard as we always hug loads. I have had to set the boundaries with my Mum. As I go shopping for her I am not going in her home or getting close. I will visit drop a present and talk from the pavement.

Of course I always find the things we learn with horses transfer to us humans. Respecting each others wishes is one, another is respecting personal space early on Chester wanted connection with me, he also had to test me out, it is in his nature. It was hard not to laugh as he always carefully pushed his left shoulder into me, to see if I noticed and to see if he could move me. We came to an understanding over boundaries and personal space.

Chester learnt the hard way with Maya when he arrived. Her boundaries over her personal space are very clear, her body language could not be clearer and yet he felt compelled to test his luck, a small cut on his leg and one on her side was the result. They have a much better understanding now and often graze together.

Here is a challenge to try with your horses, my friend April Whalley learnt this from Maya, she was working too hard to ask Maya to move, I said lets take a break and sit back down, we chatted about April being Reiki practitioner I asked her about energy. I set her a challenge to move Maya with energy and less body language it was a wonderful moment the three of us shared. She found the distance where Maya could feel her influence. Give it a go how much distance can you put between you and your horse and ask them to move, you may find there is a different distance for different horses where they ‘feel’ you. Don’t worry if it doesn’t work, if we don’t try something new now and then we will never know. Sometimes less is more. Stay safe don’t get to close, remember you can use it as an experiment, experiments don’t always work so you can abandon it and try a different approach. If you have a bumper like Chester why not set a boundary they will love you more for it. Stay safe and lets keep our distance physically where needed but not in terms of support and love. Love Jayne x


DAY 5.
How horses look after the herd.
Most of the time horses follow a code of conduct, my teacher and mentor in The Carolyn Resnick Method, The Waterhole Rituals talks about this. Carolyn Resnick teaches us that horses keep to the code, if they do not they are bought into line by another member of the the herd. They learn early on about the collective responsibility of a community. They like harmony and feeling safe.
As the Corona virus has spread most countries have experienced the best and the worst of humanity’s reactions. I like to try to see the bright side of things in life, pollution being cut and acts of kindness are the up side of this. People are worried about family, friends but also finances. Some of the most upsetting scenes have been human greed, people panic buying and even fighting over produce. Other countries have had this and we can see things will settle. Messages from friends in Italy and Hong Kong tell us this is a phase they went through too and the shops restocked. So this is a simple post today,take care of the herd and we will all come through this, don’t be the selfish person who tries to carry on when they have symptoms, don’t be the person who allows fear and panic to set in and make you greedy. If we are all sensible this will pass. There are many good sensible people in this world, many brave health workers who deserve to be able to buy their groceries after a long shift. If we allow greed and fear to drive us we are not taking care of the whole, not even of ourselves. If we can even share resources we will get through it in better shape.
Love Jayne x


DAY 6 of fourteen posts during the Corona virus.
Thank you Medina Brock for welcoming the Waterhole Ritual clinics to the amazing setting of Brandy House farm in rural mid Wales. Here Medina and Brandy pause and hang out helping brandy keep her energy down and encouraging relaxation.
Today in the uk is Mothers Day. I went to see my Mum and left a present on the step, we talked for a bit across the pavement about 8ft.
My Daughter and grand daughter’s came round, we agreed it would not be for a meal and we would stay outside at distance, we laughed and it was really hard not to cuddle the kids. We did elbow bumps and foot bumps and blew kisses. It was cold but at last, not raining, so the kids were really happy to see the animals and be outside. With no school I think there may mucking out and riding, with no contact over the next weeks!
You can see in this picture that the connection between horse and human is there and growing, can you pause be peaceful like this? There is distance with affection, our horses know themselves and they know each other so well. We can look on the bright side of this TAKE A PAUSE from our normal life. My daughter will close her hairdressing salon now and it will give her time to pause. Anyone who has more time can take that time for themselves. Try not to stress it will end. Pause take some space for yourself. When I left my Mum she said ” I am not going to let it get me down it will be over in 12 weeks ( well who knows) I will see it as a challenge ” Challenge yourself to take this time to pause in life, nature is enjoying this pause.

Love Jayne.


DAY 7 today was a glorious spring day. It is wonderful that we can enjoy nature, get outside. I am lucky I can do this within my own home. However many people have been out over the weekend in crowds which our government has said WILL spread the virus. How am I possibly relating this to horses. If we only go out for essential reasons ie to buy food or to work if in a key role. We should expand our personal space. We can see very clearly from our horses when they respect personal space. This helps them stay safe if they spook or stampede they instinctively know where the horse next to them is. If we can respect the space of others and keep 2 metres apart we stand a much better chance of not spreading this virus. Here Jack respects Jo’s personal space.


This is day 1 of fourteen days of posts during the Corona virus outbreak. If you share your home with another person you have to isolate for 14 days if you show symptoms.

So now if you have symptoms you have to self isolate for 14 days, I guess it is going to keep changing all the time. I am going to post a nice picture or video and some ideas of things you can do each day with or without your horse for 14 days. I would love to hear from everyone. Valentina Galatioto thank you for this lovely picture of Maya.
If you can’t go to see your horse, find some good books to read, you could read them now of wait and read them Sharing Territory with your horse. If everyone could share a book choice that would be cool. My top two would be Naked Liberty Carolyn Resnick and Listen like a horse Kerri Lake. Find some guided meditations to listen to with or without your horse. Lets share some! Search for some music you might like to play while Sharing Territory, this is one I often play during a meditation in the clinics.
If you play an instrument would your horse enjoy you playing to them? Sending love and positive thoughts to everyone Jayne x

The Hare and The Tortoise, and Horses?

Most kids are told the tale of the Hare and the Tortoise, it is one of Aesop’s Fables. This tale could teach us something as horse trainers.

Once, a hare saw a tortoise walking slowly with a heavy shell on his back. The hare was very proud of himself and he asked the tortoise. “Shall we have a race?”

The tortoise agreed. They started the running race. The hare ran very fast. But the tortoise walked very slowly. The proud hare rested under a tree and soon slept. But the tortoise walked, slowly and steadily and reached the goal. At last, the tortoise won the race. This tale varies, some versions say the Tortoise offered the Hare a wager knowing he was proud he would think he could win. He would underestimate the determination of the Tortoise.

I was always told it as a slow and steady, sticking to your path gets you there kind of tale. It could also have the message. Pride comes before a fall!

This can often be the case with horses. I know from the relationships I have with my horses that sometimes taking what looks like a slower route, actually makes what ever you wish to do easier and quicker. They also keep me humble and remind me to feel excited about learning and finding what I don’t know!

I have had comments from people who think The Waterhole Rituals™ would take too long for them. They continue with what they know even though it is not working for them. They know there is a gap in what they are doing as their horses behavior tells them this. However spending time waiting for their horses to initiate a relationship and using no tack seems daunting for them.

I was doing the same thing!! I was trying to ‘train’ Noonoo with the knowledge and experience I had, it was not working for her!!! I knew this and I read a quote ” If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got” I was doing what I had always done and not getting what I had got with other horses, a light bulb went off if I kept on doing the same things, for her it wasn’t going to work.

I discovered The Carolyn Resnick method The Waterhole Rituals™.

Now I have evolved into the person she needed me to be, I put how she feels first. I was reading some comments about Liberty horse training on social media and there seemed a vast difference in how we can perceive Liberty .

I read comments like when I TELL my horse he rears. This shouted from the screen at me. I am so very pleased that Carolyn found a way to make training horses much quicker, safer, and more harmonious for both parties. She taught me look for entry point of connection, ask when the horse is willing. When we let our horse truly be At Liberty, which means freedom of choice we tend to make requests to which they will say yes and then they even start to ask what shall we do together. We find we need to use far less energy and aids. Our horses like this. The Carolyn Resnick method is truly liberty based and use’s rituals natural to horses. We become clear and make sense to them and this encourages them to seek us out.

Here Chester can leave me at any time and I will not pursue him, he knows this and when we pause he used to leave ( he was very impatient) now he stays breathing deeply onto me. He is very playful and can still bump me with his shoulder, he knows he is doing it but he is checking to see if I notice, I say yes I felt it move away please but you can come back if you like. He chooses to come back and enjoys being with me. This has made lunging , ground work and introducing riding so much easier. We still spend time with The Waterhole Rituals deepening the bond we already share. I will give him time, short cuts and trying to dominate him would not make either of us happy and I would miss out on the fun we share. I have to stick to our slow and steady path and indeed everything is evolving faster and with more harmony and flow than I could have thought possible.

Are you a Hare or a Tortoise?

Love Jayne x


Judgments who are they helping?

The other day I posted a picture on social media, I thought it was a nice picture, maybe because I remember how I felt when it was taken. It made me smile, I was with my horse Noonoo and she had made me pause while grooming her, it was one of those affectionate slow grooming sessions, we stopped and she breathed on my face so slowly, it felt like pure love to me. We stood like this for some time.

I remembered so clearly the sensations and feelings I felt at the time, even though it was taken over a year ago. I didn’t expect anyone to see something negative, so when a comment was posted that I didn’t expect I was surprised. I tried not to judge them for it. Luckily I was able to answer and reassure them my horses are not caged far from it, I also mentioned that Noons was free to leave me. The person who commented was pleased. I am sure they had the horses best interests at heart and strong opinions about stabled horses.

I meet many people on my travels sharing The Carolyn Resnick method, The Waterhole Rituals ™ , sometimes they keep their horses in a different way to me, do things differently. The horses are always there for us without Judgment. They have feelings, sensations, they are more drawn to people they feel comfortable with or who ‘make sense’ to them. They always try to understand us humans they love us just like we love them. So why do we let an emotion over a picture cause a judgment?

What if instead of seeing what we don’t like and judging it as ‘wrong’ we look for the good, the part we do like, or simply look and accept what we see???? Without judgement!!! Horses don’t judge.

This lead me to thinking, if I had not been fortunate enough to keep my horses in a way that they and myself are happy with how would I feel? I know I try to do the very best for my horses and most people feel the same. Suppose I had no choice but to put my horse away in a stable overnight? Many people do not have their own property and they keep their horses at a livery yard, maybe they don’t have many to choose from.

I used to teach a young lady who loaned a horse, the place she was kept was a competition yard. The horses were not allowed out in the fields in the winter, it upset me to think of them shut in tiny stables 24/7. The lady in question had no say about this, however she used to spend as much time as possible either riding out, in a large indoor arena riding or doing some ground work, taking the mare out for walks or sitting with her in a round pen just to get the horse out of her stable. She also worked full time so often it was dark. She was a person doing the best for the horse under the circumstances. The horse loved her and they had a great connection at the liberty clinics they came to.

Before you pass judgement please pause. Does it make you feel good to do so? Will it make the person you are judging feel good? will it help the horse? Probably not. If you lead by example and endeavor to show others a way you believe is good it may work better for all concerned. Please leave me a comment.

Love Jayne x


The greatest training secret I have learnt through my experience of The Waterhole Rituals ™ is to give my horses my time.

If we can give ourselves permission to SLOW UP and spend time with our horse, only for the sake of being in their company, not wanting anything from them there are many mutual benefits. The first of Carolyn Resnicks 7 Waterhole Rituals ™ is called Sharing Territory. This is what horses do together and most of us know how strong the bonds between horses can be.

When we share territory with our horse they have the chance to begin the relationship with us, imagine if your friend only comes to you when they want something from you? wouldn’t it be nice to know they simply want to be in your company? When our horse starts the relationship they are interested in us. When I share territory I don’t want or need this, I am grateful for being in my horses company, for having them in my life and for all around me. Horses find this far more attractive than someone being needy or demanding. I have done that too! They tell me they prefer that I don’t go there.

Beans and Sonny sharing territory.

7 years ago when I enrolled in my first Waterhole Rituals ™ online course I was something of a busy person, high energy and unclear to my horse, who was also busy, high energy and confused. She couldn’t stand still, would open doors, rush from one place to the next, rear and take off the moment my behind was in the saddle, even before sometimes.

As the start of the course was still a few weeks away I started to read Carolyn’s book Naked Liberty I had heard about Sharing territory and decided I would only read it with my horse. When I slowed down, so did she, she started to show me how interested she was in a relationship with me. As the course progressed everything got better she listen more when I rode her, stood still while I put the tack on and we became a true partnership. That partnership has never stopped growing and today we trust each other in every way all the time, I know how she feels and she knows me inside out. Noonoo started me on the path I was meant to find and my other horses are grateful too. In clinics I often find the horses can SEE ME they know when we are there to be with them and are open to seeing things from their perspective, ready to listen and learn from them, guiding them with flexible boundaries and interacting in a way that makes sense to them. They offer connection and show how connected to their human they already are.

Now Noonoo even lets me know when she has decided it is time to ride.

Noonoo has gone from the fidget who could not stand still to be tacked up to asking me to put it on, at liberty she will stand and wait while I tack up. I never rush and if there is not enough time for everything we still come together with a pause and a greeting and a feeling of” What would You like?” Always open to simply enjoying some time together. I always give my horses my time, luckily I am addicted to them so it is never hard, even when life is busy you will find everything becomes smoother, more peaceful and you will feel better for Sharing Territory with your horse.

Love Jayne. x

Turning your horses NO! into a YES!!!

Before Noonoo and I had been through the Waterhole Rituals ™ , poor Noons she was really cross! I didn’t measure up to her and she knew it. This was a favorite expression of how she felt. We didn’t trust each other and I was at a loss about how to tame this wild horse.

Thankfully I heard about Carolyn Resnick and signed up for her online course, it changed everything. The big NO! from her was changing into a YES! I became a better horsewomen and learnt about what she might like to do and how she might like me to be. We spent time together sharing territory, it was hard for me, I enjoyed riding and training horses, to do NOTHING!

However it was working something was changing, I learnt how to develop a bond, trust between us was growing, she started to respect me more, she became more willing and focused on me more. She chose to have a relationship with me!!! I could barely believe it.

Our relationship has grown and is always evolving, we share a very deep bond. Now 8yrs later it feels as if we know every cell within each other, share thoughts and indeed know how each other are feeling and thinking. It may sound hard to imagine if you have not experienced it, but it is possible for every horse / human partnership. I love meeting new horses and humans and I am very fortunate to be able to travel teaching The Waterhole Rituals ™ in clinics throughout the uk.

Turning her no into a yes has been the best experience, I would never ask anything of her if she was not willing, that is the key to turning things around. Sometimes we have to create that willingness in our horse, anyone who has studied The Carolyn Resnick Method, The Waterhole Rituals ™ will know what I mean when I say check those 5 strings of connection and deepen them. When you know they are constantly alive it is an amazing feeling to share with your horse.

We enjoy listening and learning from each other we never know how our day will look or what we might try. In the fog and rain we danced. No bit, saddle, whips or spurs just enjoyment of being together playing with what we might try today. My waterproofs and thermals will be out again tomorrow!!

I hope you find the yes in your horses.

Love Jayne and Noonoo x